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Do you take insurance?

For your convenience, I am able to bill your insurance company.  There are countless insurance plans out there and I encourage you to call your insurance company and ask them about your "outpatient mental health benefits."  Some plans will only cover certain professional degrees and some plans require a referral.  You are responsible for obtaining any necessary referrals from your primary care physician.  I will collect your co-pay at the time of service, so you will want to find out how much of the fee you are responsible for.

I am currently participating with the following insurance companies:

  • Premera Blue Cross
  • Asuris
  • Uniform Medical Plan
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How do I choose a counselor?

Choosing a counselor is a personal, sometimes daunting decision. One of the best ways to find a counselor is to ask your friends, family or primary care physician for referrals. Once you get a few names, call and conduct informal interviews. You may want to ask counselors about their training, experience, philosophy, insurance reimbursement and specialties.

It's important to find a good "fit" when choosing a counselor. Just because your best friend raves about a counselor, doesn't guarantee that you will. Remember to stay optimistic. There are a lot of great counselors out there and chances are, one will be just right for you.

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What kind of relationship can I expect with my counselor?

This is an important question, because you may not always like what your counselor has to say. The therapeutic relationship plays an essential part in the therapy process. Sometimes it takes several sessions for you to feel trusting and open enough to talk about difficult issues. The job of a counselor is to be nonjudgmental, accepting and genuine. At times, being genuine will require confrontation of your negative thoughts. For change to occur, counselors may challenge, as well as support you. If you feel that your counselor is too challenging, or too supportive, it's in your best interest to tell them so. You may experience this same dilemma in other relationships, and it will help you to work it though in a therapeutic environment. You'll also be practicing how to clearly state your wants and needs, as opposed to assuming other people will read your mind!

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What is your approach to therapy?

I use an approach called Cognitive Therapy. This approach is one of the most effective therapies for a variety of disorders, according to recent research. Here are the basic assumptions of Cognitive Therapy.

  1. Your thoughts create your moods. When you’re upset, it’s not so much what’s happening to you, but the way you think about it that causes you to feel the way you do.

  2. Negative feelings result from negative thoughts.

  3. Some negative feelings are healthy and some are unhealthy. Unhealthy negative feelings nearly always result from thoughts that are distorted and unrealistic.

  4. Self-defeating attitudes such as perfectionism or the need for approval can make you vulnerable to painful mood swings.

  5. You can change the way you feel when you think about things in a more positive and realistic way.

To learn more about Cognitive Therapy, you may want to check out the writings of David Burns, MD. You’ll find his web page atwww.feelinggood.com.

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